I have just had to rearrange my dates and will now be on tour in November only.

I will post the rearranged dates either today or tomorrow.

Im sorry for the late notice.

Miss Ophelia

Please email me for appointments when I’m in Canada and America !

Im really looking forward to seeing old and new Spankees, I have very limited time so please look at the dates below and get in touch at opheliadehavilland@icloud.com

NOVEMBER

VANVOUVER 18-20

PORTLAND 20-22

LAS VEGAS 22-25

SAN FRANCISCO 25-27

CHICAGO 27-30

DECEMBER

NYC/LONG ISLAND 1-7

TORONTO 11-15

Please contact me for any appointment needed in the USA….I’m so excited about coming back to spank all those delightful Yankee bottoms !

I will be in San Francisco from this Friday so please do email me at opheliadehavilland@icloud.com for an appointment.

Then I will be in Chicago, New York and Toronto.

Bookings are now being taken for Chicago 27-29 November.

Please email me opheliadehavilland@icloud.com for an appointment.

So, as you probably know I advertise on the wonderful site ITC, it really is very good but has bits that I personally don’t like, I don’t like that some of the advertisers are “working ladies” that throw a bit of spanking into the mix of sex so they can advertise on a primarily cp website…how on earth do gentlemen that seek a jolly good spanking etc find the lady that will suit their needs, a lady that truly believes in cp, loves it and has it in her daily life…but they are just my thoughts after many gents that I see say that they’ve had bad service from ladies they thought were truly into the world of cp. I like the website and get to meet many lovely gents from it. It also has a forum where you can discuss needs, desires, get recommendations for ladies etc, another great tool to get the information that one seeks.

Then we have other sites that have forums, The Hang, Dickie Virgin, Miss Lisa cp, British Spanking.. all very good, allow advertising and have forums to again discuss things, Dickie Virgin…..my personal overseas favourite and a site owner that has helped me no end in my overseas travel schedule.

At the moment we have people falling out with each other in the world of forums, who said what to who, who visited who and who did what, who is who and who actually cares in my opinion.

Surely the world of cp is something we all have a love of so why can’t we then love one another for all our faults, why is it that we just can’t all get along ?

So, what we have is differences…isn’t that great that we can’t agree, that we don’t agree, what isn’t so great is that some can’t seem to disagree without being nasty, without slinging mud about.

If we all put our energy into spanking bottoms and not into hurting each other’s feelings then wouldn’t that be better ?

Now, if you’re reading this and wondering why, when you’ve seen me commenting on forums in the past that I’ve not been commenting recently the above will give you some of the reasons why.

I think I ought to start my own forum (not that I have the time sadly or inclination) but if there was one it wouldn’t be censored, posts removed etc, I believe in freedom of speech and in the past I’ve had posts deleted as they’ve not met with site owners approvals….but then maybe it’d be called “Rose tinted Spanking forum” to match my world of wanting to see everything through rose tinted glasses….and my love of seeing rose tinted bottom cheeks

So, I’m sad to say that I am not going to comment on any forums in the future.

When I started working professionally in the fabulous world of cp I never spoke, mixed or knew any other cp professional, I kept myself away from everyone preferring to keep myself to myself….I now will go back into my little solo world and start again.

Miss Ophelia

I will be announcing my American and Canadian dates in the next 24 hours !

This afternoon I’m going to be doing a bathtime spanking, this is one of my favourite scenarios.

Hot Bath run, miscreants clothed removed and then he sits in the bath for quite some time being told that they’ll be no supper because of his bad behaviour.

Out of the bath with a very warm bottom, over my knee without being dried off…Spanked in the bathroom before another spanking in the bedroom.

This type of spanking feels different for the simple reason that the bottom has already been warmed from the heat of the bath water.

I only offer this type of session to people I’ve seen before for sessions and not newbies.

If you’d like to experience it in the future and haven’t been to me en I suggest that you come and see me, for those that have seen me and want to experience it….what on earth are you waiting for ?

Miss Ophelia

Today I had the most amazing photo shoot planned, it has been about 18 months in the planning and because of the weather I’ve had to cancel it.

I wanted to look my usual, tall, elegant self and thought that the windswept, drowned rat that had been dragged through a hedge backwards was not going to be a good look.

The rain here hasn’t stopped and it doesn’t look like stopping for a while, my photographer has to travel over three hours to get here and if course there is the issue of his camera equipment getting soaked.

So, what am I going to do today with no one to spank ?

Miss Ophelia

Once again I’m looking forward so much to going to Toronto, I’ll be there from the 12-15 December.

Please do email me at opheliadehavilland.com for an appointment.

I look forward to having you over my knee.

Miss Ophelia

…after this mornings enquiry of my location the gent said that he wanted to visit me but likes a hard caning and whipping…not an issue !

So, then the text arrives saying that he wouldn’t want an appointment as the drive home would be “quite painful”.

The same person that enquired once before but he’d then seen my location and thought the journey was to far !

So, please do take note that you will not get an appointment with me until a deposit is received, this is NON NEGOTIABLE!!!!

I am sick and tired of repeating myself…be sure that you want an appointment and if you’re not sure may I suggest that you don’t contact me.

Miss Ophelia

Hello everybody,

I will be emailing everyone in my address book but thought I’d let people know that soon I shall be having an operation that will sadly take me out of spanking for a while.

I don’t have a date just yet but do have a date next week for the check up that I have to have before the operation goes ahead so clearly I’m on the list and it’ll be quite soon.

I am saying this incase you’ve been thinking of coming for an appointment, if you have then may I ask that you get your skates on…if you’ve not seen me before then take the plunge….I don’t bite

The operation although not serious will have me on crutches for a few weeks and the recovery is 3 months, I’m hoping that I won’t feel as bad as some and that I will be back doing what I love most in about 6 weeks from the op, even if it means me supporting some of your weight over the bed…you’ll still be over my knee.

In the time that I will be recuperating at home I shall be redoing a whole new website including a “Pure discipline” area.

I will be writing about that in another post today.

Best wishes

Miss Ophelia x

Hello all,

I have been so lapse in keeping up to date with my blog but i wanted to say that some people’s think that I’ve had my much awaited operation….I haven’t.

I do however have an operation date for the 2nd May and I’m both excited and nervous.

The recovery is sadly three months and a month of not using stairs at all so i shall be residing on the middle floor of Blaze Bottom cottage for an entire month…how will i manage i wonder, hopefully sleeping a lot aided by my pain relief.

I am hoping to Spank again sometime in June or July but of course will keep everyone informed of my ongoing progress.

Some think I’m having a hip replacement…I’m not.

What I’m having is part of my pelvis implanted with titanium rods to stabilise the joint that is crumbling, I think my early life of skiing, snowboarding, horse riding, throwing myself out of aeroplanes and bungee jumping has taken its toll finally and at the age of 51 I’m feeling the effects…but hey…had bloody fun doing all of those things for years so no regrets and i hope to be throwing myself down mountain passes again by the end of the year.

I have also been very busy on another matter which i will make public when its all over….all exciting stuff in my life at the moment

I’m looking forward to the change in the clocks and the long summer nights, i have the gardener here as i type getting the garden turned over and replanted ready for the summer, i will hopefully be spending a lot of time recuperating in the garden so want it to look lovely and smelling even better.

For the month that i can’t use stairs Metsi and Slipper will be at the dog sitters and of course i’ll miss them dreadfully.

I pity the poor gentleman that will be the first to go over my knee after a long time of not spanking, oh dear…poor them.

I’m such a dreadfully irate madam when I don’t Spank.

I am hoping to be in Namibia later in the year and then will hopefully return to see my lovely regulars in both the USA and Canada, i will then be going to Australia to see my godson and spank “down under” in January 2019.

I haven’t been back to Australia since i left there in my early 30’s after spending all of my 20’s there so it’ll be lovely to see old friends and places that i have many fond memories of.

So, thats a little insight into what is happening and if you do want to book to see me before May…get in quick.

Hugs

Miss Ophelia

Earlier I blogged that I’m to have an operation in May (2nd) that will take me out of the scene for quite a while.

If you really would like to see me before May then please email me at:

opheliadehavilland@icloud.com

Please do not leave this to the last minute as I have a mountain of things to do before I go in.

Hugs

Miss Ophelia

Hello everyone,

As most of you know I’m going into hospital tomorrow to have some major surgery on part of my pelvis.

Sadly, I will not be spanking for a few weeks, the initial recovery time is three months but I’m hoping that in about 6 weeks I hopefully will be able to spank in some way, if I can’t spank over my knee for a while I will adjust to other positions.

I do not want to say when I’ll be feeling well enough and so will be taking a day at a time.

Please do email me but if I don’t respond right away please bear with me.

Thank you for all your many good wishes and continued support.

Miss Ophelia xx

Dear friends,followers and devotees.

Many of you have undoubtably noticed my diminished presence this year – on message boards, advertising platforms, social media, session availability, and the spanking scene in general. I feel that given your interest, loyalty and kindness over the years, you are owed an explanation of events.

First, let me say how much I have missed you! The spanking scene and my role as a domestic disciplinarian have been, and continue to be, lifelong passions – the very same which has bought many of us together over the years and across the globe. I am so excited to reconnect with you and to forge new and rewarding relationships with those of you I haven’t yet met.

You know what I want!
You know what you deserve !

Now, on to the nitty-gritty and the explanation of what has happened.

For many years I have successfully advertised on the spanking website “itc-mag.com” and participated on its message board forum. Many individuals use this forum to find local referrals and get reviews of the disciplinarians who advertise on the site.

On the 25th of September 2017 a post on the ITC – mag message board from the user “Lady Pandora” maliciously and falsely claimed that I was a retired escort who formally worked in Japanese “pink bars” along with all the false statements about myself.

Why I cannot say what lady Pandora’s motivations were for the unsolicited and inappropriate attack (this is not the first time she has attempted a petty and immature offence against me, but she seems incapable of acting in any other way), one could speculate that it was professional jealousy over the stellar reputation that I have cultivated over the years bearing in mind the same woman has on numerous attempts tried and failed to bring down other professional disciplinarians in much the same way she did me.

Within minutes of the offensive and defamatory post going up on the message board I contacted the website owner via email to ask that he remove it.

For reasons best known only to the website owner the refused my request and decided to leave the offending post online for four days for many people to see, and in the many replies on the thread to the offending post from people that are members of the site in support of me asking the website owner to delete the post they simply deleted those supportive comments leaving up the original offending one by Lady Pandora. Some members even emailed the website owner directly asking them to remove it …those emails were ignored.

After the post being left up for 4 days  I made the decision to seek legal advice and in doing so instructed a solicitor, as I could not countenance Lady Pandora’s post or the website owners turning a blind eye to her defamatory remarks.

I was unable to obtain the real name and address of Lady Pandora who posted the defamatory remarks of the forum (despite requests for this information) and who I believe is exactly the very same person who has hidden behind the online persona of Lady Pandora, and so I thought the only course of action to clear my good name was to bring a lawsuit against the offending parties forcing the issue.

I simply do not understand and cannot explain why the website owner effectively protected Lady Pandora. I’ll let you draw your own conclusions here.

Having issued proceedings, the website owner agreed to post a clear and unequivocal apology on the website for 30 days despite the initial profound  resistance and I include it here for your review.

IN SEPTEMBER 2017 I, THE OWNER OF THIS WEBSITE, FAILED TO REMOVE A POST WRITTEN BY LADY PANDORA WHICH CONTAINED THE DEFAMATORY REMARKS THAT MISS OPHELIA DE HAVILLAND HAS WORKED AS A HOSTESS IN JAPANESE PINK BARS AND IS A “RETIRED ESCORT”.

I ACCEPT THAT I HAVE NO GOOD REASON FOR FAILING TO REMOVE THESE DEFAMATORY REMARKS AS SOON AS I BECAME AWARE OF THEM, WHOCH I ACCEPT WERE FALSE. I TAKE THIS OPPORTUNITY TO APOLOGISE UNRESERVEDLY TO MISS HAVILLAND FOR THE UNNECESSARY DISTRESS AND HARM I HAVE CAUSED”.

The apology has now been removed as the 30 days are up but along with the apology going up. Regretably however, I was subsequently banned  from using the website and advertising there again.

Thank you for all your lovely messages over the past year in support of my fight, I just want to add that I never wanted matters to escalate in this way and I certainly didn’t want a year of legalities taking up my life, all I ever wanted was the site owner to remove the offending and defamatory post and after they refused I felt that I had only one course of action to take.

It seems such a shame that so many loyal contributors to the website has now been banned and yet the person that has bullied and defamed so many women and men over so many years and is such a trouble maker is still allowed to contribute to the site.

Sadly in life there are bullies but there is always going to be that one person that will stand up to them…bullies are bullies because they hate themselves and feel they need to hurt others to feel better about themselves.

Now, onto happier things….I have a new free advertising platform getting built for all the lovely ladies we have that love to discipline, more news on that soon.

This site will be updated shortly too with new photos, content etc.

I am looking forward to corresponding with you and seeing you in the near future.

We both know what you deserve and I look forward to giving it to you!

With my very best wishes, thanks and hugs

Miss Ophelia de Havilland

I feel so blessed that I’ve had so many people contact me in regards to my last post and the itc-mag v me issue (please do read it if you haven’t done so).

It’s had over 17,000 views and I’m overwhelmed by this.

Anyhow, onto more positive things, I’m letting you know that from the beginning of November I will be taking 5 weeks off as I’m off to….yes, you guessed it….South Africa for a long overdue holiday consisting of a road trip, lots of fabulous food, wine, house viewings, seeing lovely friend and of course safari.

I am also betweeen now and then hoping to get to Toronto and New York so please do drop me an email if you’re interested in seeing me.

For my wonderful spankees here in the UK i hope to see you over my knee very soon.

Miss Ophelia x

Well well well…so someone, and we all know who that might be eh Lady Pandora ? Has contacted Twitter and my account has been suspended for a while…..this makes absolutely no difference to the amount of people that have read my blog post now….26,000 and counting so I’m more than happy to take a break from Twitter for a while.

In the meantime i have more legal stuff to get on with and guess what the funniest thing is….The “Website owner of ITC” (oops) and Lady…not so a lady Pandora wanted and threatened me to take my post down….its down, as you wish for a while at least.

Do your best idiots…..my Twitter is down but I’m not.

Miss Ophelia

Hello all my Spankos,

I wanted to make you all aware that I will off on my holidays on the 3rd November and will not return until December 7th.

If you’d like to have a well earned trip over my knee before I leave please do email me at opheliadehavilland@icloud.com

I look forward to seeing you where you belong…soon.

Miss Ophelia

Hello all !

I just want to say although I’ve not updated this site for so so long I am still spanking and haven’t given up or died.

As most people know I have had some health issues which I have had surgery for 3 times in the last 18 months and another scheduled for November…hopefully that should be nearly my last.

Secondly, there is a new website arriving so watch out for that with a lot of new content, photos, films etc.

My Twitter is now MissO@acerbicmiss and you can follow me there too.

I am taking appointments up until November 1st so please contact me.

Miss Ophelia